May 10 – 7 months after October 10th

Here we are.  It’s been 7 months.  I can’t believe that my baby girl has been gone that long.  Yet so short.  On April 10th, I was doing media interviews talking about Amanda, the 6 month date and Rehteah Parsons.  Now here it is May 10th.  I am in Winnipeg.  I am with Rehteah’s mom and dad here.    We are meeting with Stephen Harper (the Prime Minister of Canada) to talk about our kids and how we lost them.  There are also two other families here that have lost their children.  Uggg…. way too many.

The meeting on Friday will be interesting.  Many ask if I am nervous.  I don’t think I am.  I don’t think about it that way.  Mr Harper (although the prime minister) is just another dad.  He cares and he wants to listen.   As a parent, he most likely wants the best for his own kids.  And also for his future grandchildren.  We have to look at how things are now and how things should be in order for the technology super highway to run smoothly without the major crashes to humanity.  We need to make it safe.  We need to make it easy and safer to access and move around in.

Everyone here is so nice.  And very huggable.  I have made some more wonderful life long connections.  And they drink white grape juice here too.

It is 2:31 a.m. Winnipeg time.  The problem with this is that in Vancouver, it is only 12:31 a.m.  So, Carol is not tired.  But when morning comes, uh oh.  How am I supposed to fall asleep?  It’s like daylight savings time all over again.  Did you know that snow disappeared from Winnipeg only a couple of weeks ago.  I still see the vehicles out here with the dirty snow day look.  Also, weird to see the plugs everywhere.  You know them.  It’s to plug in the cars in the winter.  They are everywhere.

I wish I was home to light my candle.  I am so proud and happy to see that others have written poems, taken pictures and made tribute videos.  To almost everyone out there – you probably won’t ever know how much I love and appreciate all that has been done and will be done in the future in helping to remember Amanda and her legacy.  It means so much.  It tells all of us that we care.

Have a few more people to meet tomorrow also.  The people who are printing the t-shirts and hoodies for ATL are in Winnipeg.  About 10 minutes from the hotel.  I am going to try to find them tomorrow.  I should go and try to see if I can sleep. It is not 2:47 a.m. Winnipeg time.

Hugz to everyone.  Love you Amanda …. xoxo


There are a slew of new articles today on cyberbullying and teen depression/suicide.

Most Suicidal Teens Sought Medical Advice Within A Year Of Death, Study Shows

Teachers warn of threat from cyberbullying
Herald Scotland
teachers in Scotland are increasingly being subjected to cyberbullying from pupils, union leaders have warned. teachers in Scotland are increasingly being subjected to cyberbullying from pupils, union leaders have warned. Custom byline text: ANDREW 
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Can Cyberbullying Be Solved With Team Sports? (blog)
Audrie Pott and Rehtaeh Parsons’ stories are tragic, but what’s even more tragic is the fact that these two young girls are not alone. In fact, a new study presented at the Pediatric Academic Societies (PAS) found that 16 percent of high school 
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One kid’s stand against cyberbullying
What parents need to be concerned with is another form of bullying that is becoming more and more popular — cyberbullyingCyberbullying is a way to bully kids and teens using Facebook, Twitter and other social media sites. Cyberbullying can also 
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‘You are hated by everyone’: When Hamilton’s cyber bullies attack
Waikato Times
OPINION: Teenager Grace King asked her friend to describe what she went through as a victim of cyber bullying. This is a true account of what she said. Imagine this: You’re 17 years old, and you’ve been with friends all day. You come home, put your 
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Waikato Times
Tools to track cyberbullying, 1 in 6 children affected
When Cardova attended Pleasure Ridge Park he said cyberbullying was done in class and out of school. It’s become more accessible for bullies to get away with it, too. The hurtful comments target children without the victim even knowing it until the 
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Parents of Rehtaeh Parsons, Amanda Todd to join PM at meeting
The mother of Rehtaeh Parsons blames online bullies for her 17-year-old daughter’s death. (CBC). Prime Minister Stephen Harper will be at a cyberbullying forum Friday in Winnipeg with the family members of several teenagers whose deaths have cast a 
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Feed Nova Scotia Helpline offering support for cyberbullying
Halifax News Net
Recent high-profile incidents have brought critical attention to the devastating effects that sexual violence and cyberbullying can have on youth, families and communities. While much of the discussion has focused on the support available to the youth 
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Kiss 100’s Linda Nyangweso Cyber-Bullied Due To Her Weight
Cyber-bullying is now becoming a common trend among the Kenyan online community. A number of celebrities have had their fair share of cyber-bullying thanks to the stance they once took. One of them is Susan Mirfat Musa who was even labeled Madharau 
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‘Star Wars Kid’ goes on a media blitz 10 years later
He’s talking about what it’s like to be cyber-bullied. As a 14-year-old, he used his high school’s TV studio in November 2002 to film a two-minute clip in which he clumsily impersonated a light saber-wielding Jedi Knight with the help of a golf ball 
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Excerpts from recent South Dakota editorials – The Republic
The Republic
According to a 2010 U.S. Department of Education study, one in five adolescents said that they had been victims of cyberbullying, and about the same number admit to having been a cyberbully. To help illustrate the sometimes tragic consequences of 
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Web 4 new results for cyberbullying
Prevention, not tougher punishment key to ending cyber bullying 
We are witnessing a growing number of tragedies from cyberbullying, most recently the tragic losses of Rehtaeh Parsons in Nova Scotia and Amanda Todd in…/prevention-not-tougher-punishment-key-to-…
cyber-bullying | SONiC
Archive for cyber-bullying Bri’s Cheese & Sleaze: Rihanna accused of cyber- bullying. Posted on May 5, 2013 by Bri. Rihanna is known to respond to her
Cyberbullying expert coming to Dresden – Wallaceburg Courier Press
News, Local, Provincial, Canada, World, Sports, High School Sports, Local Hockey, Hockey, Basketball, Baseball, Football, Soccer, Lacrosse, Curling, Other…/cyberbullying-expert-co…
Cyberbullying rampant among high school students: Nearly one 
Step into a class of 30 high school students and look around. Five of them have been victims of electronic bullying in the past year. What’s more, 10 of those

About Carol Todd

Being the mother of Amanda Todd has lead me on this journey shortly after Amanda's death on October 10, 2012. Amanda's prolific You Tube video has been viewed over 33 million times. Through this video, there has been an increased awareness about cyberbullying, social media safety and mental health.
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5 Responses to May 10 – 7 months after October 10th

  1. merle48 says:

    We do know how much you appreciate all of us who care, by your sharing your feelings almost everyday with us, and sharing your daughters sweet memories with us. That is all that matters…remembering beautiful, spirited Amanda right alongside of you each and everyday by sharing your stories, and inspiring us to do the RIGHT thing always.


  2. jag72 says:

    I would always be there to to follow the legacy Amanda.
    That her message is heard as long as possible until victory against the bullies


  3. la Punisher says:

    Hoping all goes well for you today, At 6 PM a candle will burn in remembrance.

    Hugz 2U


    • Hamsi says:

      How thoughtful of you, la Punisher, to remember the date as well as the time. Carol, your gentle daughter is remembered with much love and compassion today.


  4. Tristan says:

    What a beautiful blog Carol, I hope your having yourself a wonderful time in Winnipeg. Enjoy some white grape juice and relax when you can, try and enjoy ‘just being away’ for a couple of days. I think its wonderful, you meeting up with the Parsons along with other families in similar situations. Your such a strong advocate in all this, im sure its important to them that you are there just as well. Wishing you well with the Harper meeting, so great to know this is happening and him taking this opportunity to listen to what you have to say along with the other families. We all hope to see something positive come out of this, this is also proof that you and Amanda, along with others such as Rehtaeh and her family are all making a major difference. Many of us will have our candles lit for Amanda today and tonight, thinking of her heavily on a day like today. Seven months has come and gone and it still feels very fresh, that all this has happened. I am completely amazed, looking back at these seven months and seeing all that you have done and are doing for your daughter and her memory. You have done so much and kept so busy, we are all so proud of what you are doing for her and her legacy. You are truly an amazing person and an amazing mom, anybody would be so lucky to have such a wonderful mother. You truly are an inspiring person. Wishing you sunny days when you awake.

    Interesting quote i came across : “Forget all the reasons it won’t work and believe the one reason that it will.” – Unknown


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